I used to be disgusted about the thought of having anything around let alone in my anus. However, one night my husband gently rub by rosebud while giving me oral sex. I just about went through the roof. It felt so good. Then he asked me if I wanted to try anal sex and I said yes. He made sure that he was really lubed up (we find astroglide streaming sex videos works best as it stays slippery without drying). I had my first true orgasm that night. It was incredible. The key was lots of lube, going slow and communication.